Reflect on yourself

Karen Colney <>

Tue, Feb 7, 2023 at 11:44 AM 

To: Justin Capella

I will only apologize for Not Lowering My Expectations of the HOA Board of Directors. Not so very long ago, I can recall a volunteer HOA Board AND Property Manager being mercilessly harassed and targeted for perceptions (far worse) than what was just brought to light. So: You May NOT have it both ways. Just like the Past: Accountability Will Be Expected and Maintained. That’s known as The Mirror Theory of Behavior.

Karen Colney <>

Tue, Feb 7, 2023 at 5:34 PM

To: Justin Capella

I would rather run thru Hell in Gasoline Underwear than accept an apology from the likes of you. What you did for two+ years UNACCEPTABLE & UNFORGIVABLE. Make NO Mistake: I was going to testify against you on behalf of Watt Communities.

As I have stated Many Many Times Before: I am a Committed Homeowner who has been here since The Very Beginning. I Support the Homeowners and the Community. As for the HOA: it depends completely on the performance of the Property Management Company and the HOA Board of Directors and right now I am NOT impressed with your loosing $21k. Get a Clue. And go Apologize to Tony Zogopoulos, Christopher Howerton, David Frank, Watt Communities and Everyone else subjected to your actions. I doubt they’ll accept your apologies either.

Gee, I wonder which sociopath sent these?

harassing letters.pdf

The Mirror Theory

When we look at others we are looking at a mirror. When we observe and analyze the behavior of other people we actually discover ourselves in them. The profile we create for others is shaped by our own personality.

None of us are perfect. We all have our deficiencies and areas of personality that are underdeveloped and need work. But we are often unaware of these deficits. Self love often causes us to be in denial, preventing us from resolving and correcting these weaknesses.

When we observe character defects in other people and criticize them, it is really the undeveloped parts of our personality that are showing up. We are only so irritated by these blemishes because the very same issues are unresolved within ourselves.

You've got to learn the golden rule.

Maybe I'm mistaken- expecting you to fight;
or, maybe I'm just crazy, I don't know wrong from right.
But, while I am still living, I've just got this to say-
It's always up to you if you want to be that...
Want to see that... want to see it that way.

Every time... I look in the mirror

Our brothers and sisters that we are seeing in the dream are mere reflections of our inner self... the people we dislike are mere reflections of our own counter feedback systems.

by the early next morning he brought my letter back... Return to sender!

Witch? I'm not afraid of a witch.